Finding Love After 40

What do you think is the number one thing single Christian women over 40 desiring lasting love need the most?

Physical appearance? Luck? Favor? Compromise your values?

It is none of those things.

Does this sound familiar?

You know something is missing but you aren't sure what it is.

You know it is not as simple as losing 20 pounds, changing your hair, or spinning around 3 times and your future husband will magically appear.

You tried other programs but they were not in alignment with your values and beliefs. The advice you received didn’t this stage of your life and left you close to giving up hope that you will ever find true love. What’s worse is you are starting to think that all the good ones are taken and you somehow missed out.

Not for nothing, you already have a full life. You are busy. Perhaps you’ve raised children or they are at an age where you realize they will be on their own soon. Some of you have grandchildren and are building a legacy. You are a leader in your church. Your career has seen some success. People look up to you for your advice and leadership. Yet, when you go home, you are alone. 

You see happy couples and your heart sinks because you are losing hope that could ever be you. You are all most resigned to growing older alone. 

You were told if you wait, he will “find” you. You are not lost. You just need the right skills and support! 

Additionally, most of your well-meaning friends have been married for decades. They offer advice from their experiences in their 20s. You are a mature, accomplished woman. You need something different, something more. You don’t know what it is but you know that the old version of you has expired and at this point there is no turning back! 

Before my marriage at 48, my personal favorite was a woman who condescendingly told me to be content being single because not everyone would get married - WHILE HOLDING HER HUSBAND'S HAND! Girl bye!

You don’t want to waste time, energy, and effort in the entertaining the wrong man. You don’t have to muddle through figuring it out by yourself. You’ve been there and done that. This time you want to discern the users, losers, and liars BEFORE you invest years into the relationship. 

I found that most of my mature single sisters are still approaching relationships like they did in their 20s. You don’t need luck. Nor do you need to compromise your value system. You need the skills and support that you have not been able to find in your immediate environment. Everything else in your life has evolved except how you expect romantic relationships to materialize. Shouldn’t your approach to finding love evolve too?

What if you could gain the skills, sisterhood, and support you need to make good relationship choices, consistent with your values and beliefs with a coach who shares your values and has been there herself?

What if you could learn how to date and select your future mate as a mature Christian woman and not a 20 year old girl waiting for Boaz or Prince Charming?

What if you could discover how to attract godly, successful men who are willing and able to love you and do life with you? 

You are wise. You know anything worth having is worth the investment it takes to get it. You didn’t come this far believing in fairytales. You know a good opportunity when you hear one and you are not about to miss this one. 

Are you willing to invest in yourself and your future marriage?

If you are ready to invest in your future and willing to open your heart to new possibilities, this may be the answer to your prayers. Don’t miss this opportunity. 

A year from now you will wish you started today?

Why should you listen to me?

I am not just a coach, I am a success story!

I married my high school sweetheart two weeks after college graduation. To be honest with you, I just thought my first marriage would work out. After all, we were both Christians and dated for seven years. But after 11 years of marriage, we divorced and I was devastated. I spent nearly 15 years single again. Don’t get me wrong. They were well spent years. I raised my children and was the primary caretaker for my aging, ailing parents. I earned a master’s degree and six certifications in life, business, and executive coaching. I became an adjunct professor, wrote a book, and started two businesses. I mentored young women and single moms. During those years, I was the leader of at least seven ministries. I worked at least two jobs during that time. Before I knew it, more than a decade have passed and I was still doing life alone.

I wanted to get married again, but I didn’t know how or where to meet single godly men desirous of marriage. And even if I did meet one, I would not have known how to handle him. All those years later, I knew how to be single. What I wanted to be was married.

I also knew as a single woman of color in the Christian community, my odds of getting married in my 40s. I needed a different type of support than what was available in my immediate circle. It was time to make a change. That’s when I discovered it doesn’t only take a village to raise a child, I needed to build a village of my own to get married. My village was strong and almost 8 months to the day I met an ivy league educated, loving, godly man, we were married!

Now, I want to share with my sisters what I learned from my village that helped me prepare to meet and marry at 48.

HOW WE DO IT

• Weekly coaching, self-work, and skill-building training and exercises to help you gain the skills and confidence to prepare for meeting and screening for quality men. 
• Live coaching with Coach Kim and guest experts to help you prepare for the love you desire and deserve. 
• Special VIP access to The Code Uncut - Real Conversations on Life, Love, and Sex
• Private discussion group to for sisterhood and support from others on the same journey. 
• Optional one-on-one private coaching sessions to solidify the learning and give you feedback on your unique situation and background circumstances.